tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35237243.post1985763788997767531..comments2023-04-04T09:16:19.008-05:00Comments on Getting to know me: Hollihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00731937409718611664noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35237243.post-2098506676860229362007-03-25T19:26:00.000-05:002007-03-25T19:26:00.000-05:00holli, i'm so sorry you're having to deal with thi...holli, i'm so sorry you're having to deal with this! doesn't he think his word is worth anything? ugh!!!! i'm sorry...neicybellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06225173094525104590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35237243.post-91395058795601927432007-03-19T15:13:00.000-05:002007-03-19T15:13:00.000-05:00How's your Monday going so far? I'm thinking of yo...How's your Monday going so far? I'm thinking of you and wondering how everything went.Kristi K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17423316204724367774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35237243.post-16428003433956501582007-03-16T12:39:00.000-05:002007-03-16T12:39:00.000-05:00Here's the thing - Tim is OCD. He can't stand the...Here's the thing - Tim is OCD. He can't stand the thought of 'dirty people' in his house messing it up and he won't even be home to know it! EEERRRRR - so frustrating! <BR/>I hate OCD!!Hollihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00731937409718611664noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35237243.post-37971588607119659542007-03-16T12:11:00.000-05:002007-03-16T12:11:00.000-05:00I do understand your sentiments in this post. I am...I do understand your sentiments in this post. <BR/><BR/>I am glad you're having the crop and that you're excited about it. <BR/><BR/>I'm sorry Tim isn't excited about the crop or the baby.<BR/><BR/>Robert, as you know, is antisocial. He's okay to talk to people (a bit) out and about. But he sees his home as his private domain. He prefers to be left alone there. His home is his reprieve, his place to have solitude. One day I'm going to build him a huge entertainment room, and he can lock himself in it and I can finally have people over.<BR/><BR/>He doesn't mind me going places...no problem. He'd watch the kids back when they were babies anytime I wanted to go to a friend's house or meet up somewhere. His attitude is "Just go, have fun. Don't expect me to chit chat." That kind of thing. I have a lot of friends, he has one or two really distant friends or a few from high school that he chats with if he sees them at the store. Nothing more. We have no couple friends. I think it would be fun to have couple friends. He sees friends as "one more headache."<BR/><BR/>So, over the last 17 years we've been together, I don't push him on this. Since I don't cook, anyway, how much of a hostess could I be? ;) I simply go out with my friends, meet up somewhere. (You know this about me.) I guess if I wanted to have a shindig I'd have to rent a venue. So, I know how this is to have a husband who isn't social like you. It's tough.<BR/><BR/>The whole thing is so hard. I will be praying hard for you. Hang in there, okay, sweetie. I am so glad you're a strong woman and you can stand up for yourself. I'm proud of you.<BR/><BR/>Have a good weekend, and I hope you all have a blast at your crop. <BR/><BR/>Btw, I'm ordering today, should be in by next weekend. We'll set up a time to get together, okay?<BR/><BR/>Love you, hon. Hugs!Kristi K.https://www.blogger.com/profile/17423316204724367774noreply@blogger.com